Top 5 Places To Pick Up Ladies In The Spring And Summer

Top 5 Places To Pick Up Ladies In The Spring And Summer

Almost a month into spring and we are now in the middle of one of my favorite parts of the year, CHOOSING SEASON!!!!

What is choosing season you might ask? It’s that magical time of the year where the weather gets warmer, the days get longer, and the dresses get shorter as women and come out of their recently thawed out apartments and dorm rooms to take advantage of the weather...and the scenery (that includes us fellas) as they look to find a new fling or boyfriend.  Here just watch this educational video for more information.

Now I don’t know how your parents raised you but I was always told it was rude to keep a lady waiting. I mean what kind of men would we be to keep these poor girls on the hook? So if you’re like me and you want to leave them dangling on a different kind of hook (yaaaah buddy) it’s important to find to avoid wasting time and go where the ladies are. 

The Beach

Seems obvious right?  Beaches are great places to meet women in the warm weather months.  Men love to look at women, especially when they’ve already done a lot of the hard work for us and have already shown up with such scantily clad…attire.  However there’s a difference between looking and leering so make sure you know it.   

Work it to your favor:  Bring a ball or Frisbee with you and invite her and her friends to play.  If you want to scan out the hottest chicks without raising the ‘perv flag’ of every women in your immediate area wear sunglasses, the more reflective the better, what they don’t know can’t hurt ‘em.

Any Summer Opening Event

These are great places to scope out your next future ex-girlfriend.  Many times if a bar, restaurant, or gallery of some kind is opening in the summer they will usually have an outdoor area, they will also likely have discounts on food or drinks, which is great because you need fuel before hunting, and saving money is always a good decision.

Work it to your favor:  If you can, try to throw a party or social event there. Since the place doesn’t yet have a social reputation women won’t necessarily be expecting to be picked up.  Also being the person who throws a party brings with it a lot of social status that some women find pretty attractive.  Finally since everything in these places is new you’ll have tons of conversation material (comment on the décor, the menus, etc)

Concerts, Festivals, And Other Outdoor Events

No grand openings in your area? No problem, find a concert, fair, or festival to go to.  These places are usually loaded with good vibes (women) great tunes (women) fun activities (women) and great food (women).  Meeting women here should be no problem.  

Work it to your favor:  If you meet them at a concert or music festival they probably already know about the band(s) and some of the songs, maybe even the genre so you already have loads of easy conversation starters right there.  If you’re at a fair there is no shortage of activities on site to invite her to choose from to try with you.

Parks, Cafes, Restaurants w/Patio

Another obvious but important place to mention, these places are high traffic areas attracting a lot of people who want to get outside and enjoy the day. They also attract a lot of ladies especially those who like to people watch.  

Work it to your favor:  Bring a good camera and take pictures in the park, casually ask her to be in some of the pictures.  If you can take your dog with you to there and make sure you sit outside. Nothing starts a conversation better than a cute puppy who “accidentally” wanders over towards her while you were taking a walk/sipping coffee/etc, plus if she likes dogs you know she’s at least not a sociopath so that’s always a plus.  Finally you can always bring a Frisbee and invite her and her friends to join you as a great way to break the ice.

Camping Sites

Get some of your friends together and go find some women at a camping site.  Since both groups are out there to camp you’ll already have a common interest.  Plus women don’t really expect to get picked up at a camping site so their guard will probably be down.  Also because they don't expect to get picked up it creates spontaneity, and if they are camping it's probably a vacation (ladies love vacation sex, seriously though who doesn't) Bonfires, a good amount of booze, moonlight hikes in the woods or on the beach or at the lake (chicks really like those last two).  This environment kind of screams romantic adventure, it'd be unmanly of you not to take advantage of such a great location.

Work it to your favor:  Make sure you have gourmet but outdoorsy food you can cook on a grill, things like smoked oysters, mushroom stuffed caps with pesto are great to bring because they are sensual foods.  Also you can bring fresh fruit and chocolates which are also sensual and snack like helping set the tone without being obvious.  Bring beer but also bring something women may be more likely to drink, such as sangria or wine (many chicks really dig wine, it gives them all warm and fuzzy, you want to be the guy who gave her that feeling).

Go For It

Whatever place you choose always have some kind of basic idea about the environment, taking into account things that can be used to start conversation or used as an activity.  As an extra note if you’re going out to a social venue keep in mind that the women who go out on off nights like a Monday or Tuesday to go out on the prowl will be easier to spot than if they were going out on a Friday or a weekend, when other non-prowl oriented (roadblocks) women are out with their friends as well. Work these venues to your advantage and you’ll be sure to come out of it with a lovely lady on your arm, hell maybe two if you play it right.  Summer doesn’t last forever so get going today.  Carpe Diem.